One of the first things I get a new client to do is to get clear on what they want.
Sounds simple enough right?
Wrong. So so wrong.
In fact I reckon 1 in 15 people probably have this sorted.
You know what they are clear on though?
What they DONT want.
And here my friends, lies a problem.
Your brain doesnt distinguish the difference between negatives and positives.
For example if I tell you NOT to think of a blue car, what happens?
You think of the blue car.
So while its all G knowing what you dont want you need to start framing your thought processes toward what you DO want – otherwise you’re going to get a whole lot more of that ‘crappy’ stuff.
So while you kick the heels up a bit over the Christmas break be sure to frame it the right way 🙂
One thing I will tell you is this can be a frustrating exercise at times. Stick with it.